13 Reasons Why: #6 The Two Pints Of Gaslighting And A Packet Of Fists

Criticising, Fighting & Gaslighting It’s probably because I now find myself in a relationship with a decent human being (for a change) that I’m able to look back at previous ones with such cringe-worthy clarity. It’s like watching the predictable victim in a cheap horror film make one moronic decision after another and you’re left…

13 Reasons Why: #5 The Kiss With A Fist

Emotional & Physical Abuse Don’t freak out. These are not suicide notes. 13 Reasons Why was a series I found particularly hard to swallow. Probably because it was so powerful. Probably because you’re forced to look into Hannah Baker’s vacant eyes for the entire, harrowing duration of her rape. And if that’s not a trigger,…

Love, Sex & Mental Health

Depression, Anxiety, Anorexia, Ptsd, Pmdd; To Name A Few. I am writing this post from my bed. Rather, I am struggling to write this post from my bed. Because the throbbing pain in my back beats steadier and harder than my heart. Because it reverberates up my neck and shoots down my arms with every…

Jealousy Will Drive You Mad

Overcoming Jealousy In Open Relationships Aha, Mr Green-eyed Monster. We meet again… To enter an orgy is to surrender yourself to a tempest of intimacy and get f**ked in every perceivable permutation . Y’know, if you’re into that sort of thing. Meeting someone on the scene wasn’t something I planned, quite the opposite, in fact….

“Of course she’ll have sex with me – look at her instagram!”

“Are you a sex blogger? I don’t want to be written about.” “Yes, but what makes you think we’ll have sex?” “I’m just confident we will lol” Laugh all you want, my darling, but I’m still not having sex with you. Ah, the simplicities of mankind. I suppose they are pretty ‘laugh out loud’. Just…

Events review: Friday night at Risqué as a single laday

Look for the restaurant on your right and make yourself known at the host stand: you are attending… “Right this way, Madame” he gestured, and for a moment our eyes locked in knowing. I smiled. I couldn’t help a sudden arousal as I glided above a sea of drunken debauchery, my lace body caressing the skin beneath…

Two’s company, three’s a hella fun.

One for sorrow Two for joy Three for a girl Throw in another boy Bodies welding together Dripping in gold Welcome to orgies – would you be so bold? Do you ever get tired of loving, with nobody to love? I used to fixate on finding that one person I could lose myself in. Out…

How not to bott

by roughly 3 out of every 5 guys I’ve slept with. First thing’s first: define ‘Bott’. There’s been considerable debate over the years as to its meaning (or over the past few hours that I have been writing this post). There are those who would rationally speculate the word finds its roots in the well-known body…

The Artist

Ah, modern-day dating… what an effing shit show. I haven’t had a relationship that has lasted longer than 6 months for almost 6 years – and that’s 6 months at a push. Some people would say I’m too picky, I’d argue I’m just less tolerant of bullshit. But is it really anything to do with…

Red Blooded Woman

you’ll never get to heaven if you’re scared of getting high I’m going to ask that you count backwards from 10 before you read this, lest you get too heated and turned on. Because yes, this one’s about sex. And I’ve learned my lesson all those times before – I’ve dealt the consequences of speaking…